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Writing Your Own Lessons Learned During Rapid Growth

Created by Sarah Choi (prompt writer for ChatGPT)

Writing Your Own Lessons Learned During Rapid Growth

When growth is rapid, advice can feel abstract or late. Your own experience, however, is immediate—and precise. Writing your lessons learned is a way to turn today’s hard‑won knowledge into tomorrow’s guidance. It is not a memoir; it is a living, accessible record that helps you make better decisions under pressure. This article offers a practical approach to capturing what you have learned—especially in the present tense—without blame or regret, in formats you can actually reuse.

Why Capture Lessons Now (Not Just Later)

In a surge, memory is unreliable. Details blur, trade‑offs get re‑told as myths, and the sharp distinctions between what helped and what merely sounded wise fade fast. Writing now preserves texture: the real constraints, the words that calmed a tense thread, the small move that stabilized the day. When the next wave hits, these notes become a sterile instrument—clean, precise, ready to use. You are not hunting for external authority; you are mining your own.

Present → Past → Pattern: A Helpful Order

Start with the present: what you learned today or this week while it is still fresh. Then, if energy allows, jot down lessons from similar moments in the past. Over time, you will begin to see the pattern—circumstances that repeat, moves that tend to work for your stage and scale, and early indicators that a tactic is expiring. This order keeps your log practical. The present feeds tomorrow’s decisions; the past interprets today; the pattern makes you faster and kinder under pressure.

Forms That Fit: Write, Dictate, or Type

Pick the mode that removes friction. If you think with your hands, keep a pocket notebook and write a single paragraph per lesson. If your hands are full, dictate a forty‑five‑second voice note right after a meeting and transcribe it later. If typing is your default, keep a rolling document or note pinned where you work. The form does not have to be pretty; it has to be reachable. Aim for a tone that is factual, brief, and human.

Keep It Accessible to Future You

Your lessons are only useful if you can find them. Store them where you already live—your notes app, a simple document, or a lightweight wiki. Give entries consistent names (date + topic + outcome) and add two or three tags you will actually search (e.g., onboarding, escalation, handoff, hiring). Add a simple index at the top of your file with links to the last ten entries you keep revisiting. Once a month, copy the three most reusable lessons into your Personal Operator’s Compendium so they travel with you across projects.

No Blame, No Regret—Only Data and Care

Rapid growth will include misses, reversals, and decisions that age in a day. Do not turn your lessons log into a blame ledger. Write in neutral, respectful language: “Volume doubled; the single‑owner review decayed after week two; we switched to a two‑person rotation.” Regret never moves any needle; it consumes energy you need for repairs and learning. Replace “should have” with “next time I will.” Replace “my fault” with “my part,” and include what was outside your control. Your log should leave you steadier, not smaller.

A Simple Structure for Each Entry

Keep entries short enough to write in three minutes and clear enough to reuse in three months. One reliable pattern:

Situation. Two to three sentences on context, constraints, and stakes.

Intervention. What you actually did—words you used, sequence you chose, people you involved.

Outcome. What changed, for how long, and at what cost (energy, time, trade‑offs).

Duration. Tag the lifespan: 5 seconds, 5 minutes, 5 hours, 5 days, 5 weeks, 5 months, or (rarely) 5 years.

Next. What you will keep, change, or try instead.

This structure keeps the focus on usefulness, not prose.

Examples (Short, Real, Reusable)

Subject‑line reset for tense threads. Situation: A partner thread spiraled with long replies and vague asks; stakes were relationship trust and a deliverable due in 48 hours. Intervention: Wrote a new email with the subject line “Decision needed by 3 p.m. (Option A/B)” and a three‑bullet summary. Outcome: Prompt decision, calmer tone, no call required. Duration: 5 minutes per use; used four times in one day. Next: Save as a snippet; consider a shared guide for subject‑line patterns.

Single‑intake form for ad‑hoc requests. Situation: Slack pings pulling engineers in ten directions; support queue swelling. Intervention: Directed all ad‑hoc asks to one form with two triage questions and a daily review. Outcome: Reduced interruptions, clearer priorities; some initial grumbling. Duration: 5 days at current volume. Next: Move to a shared queue with simple service levels if volume persists.

Rotating “stabilization stand‑up.” Situation: Cross‑team blockers stalling delivery. Intervention: 15‑minute morning call focused only on top three value streams and impediments; no status recaps. Outcome: Faster unblocking, fewer side‑channels. Duration: Held for 5 weeks before ceremony creep. Next: Shift to M/W/F with pre‑reads.

Prompts That Pull Out What Matters

If you stall at a blank page, use prompts. What surprised me today? Which move bought us time? Which phrase de‑escalated a tense moment? What did I end early, and what did that protect? What did I learn about pacing, handoffs, or quality that I want to remember next month? What was outside my control, and how did I respond within my control? One sentence per prompt is enough.

Micro‑Rituals That Keep the Habit Alive

Make lesson writing small and regular. After your last meeting, spend three minutes capturing one entry before you close your laptop. On Fridays, skim the week and star the two entries most likely to help future you. Once a month, choose one lesson to share with your team (sanitized if needed) and one you will try again under new conditions. Habit beats inspiration.

Dictation Tips for Fast Capture

When you dictate, imagine you are leaving a message for a capable colleague. Speak in short sentences. Say the fields out loud—“Situation… Intervention… Outcome… Duration… Next…”—and pause between them. If background noise is high, record a quick headline: “Handoff fix worked—two steps, five days,” then fill the details when you reach a quiet desk. Perfection is the enemy of recall; capture the gist now.

Making Lessons Findable Across Projects

Create a single “Lessons—Current” file and archive quarterly into “Lessons—Q1 2026,” etc., so search stays fast. Use the same tags across quarters. Add a one‑page “read me first” that lists your ten most reused entries with links. If you change tools, export to a simple format (markdown or PDF) so nothing is trapped in a platform you might leave. Future you will say thank you.

Sharing Without Overexposure

You do not have to publish everything. Share selectively—entries that help others without breaching privacy or context. When you do share, add a short note: stage of growth, scale of team, and what it cost to maintain. This protects your teammates from over‑generalizing your experience while still giving them something useful to try.

When Lessons Hurt to Write

Some days the most honest entry is about a miss. Write it gently. Name the constraint, the intent, the move, the impact, and what you would try next. Then close the document and go for a brief walk or drink water. The purpose is to learn, not to relive. If you catch yourself spiraling into self‑reproach, stop. Write one sentence: “Regret won’t move this; I will.” Then choose a small next step and take it.

A 30‑60‑90 Habit Plan

Days 1–30: Capture one lesson per weekday using the simple structure; don’t worry about polish. Tag duration and topic. Read five minutes every Friday.

Days 31–60: Promote three entries into your Operator’s Compendium; start a tiny index at the top of your file. Share one entry with your team.

Days 61–90: Notice patterns and write a short page on “moves that hold five minutes vs. five weeks in our world.” Refine your tags; prune what you no longer need; make a quick “start here” list for your future self.

Closing Encouragement

It may be hard to find a perfect playbook for your kind of rapid growth. It is easy, however, to tap your own experience and turn it into a guide you trust. Write without blame, capture the present before it fades, and choose formats your future self can find. Even brief, imperfect notes will spare you hours later. Regret has no returns; learning does. Keep the log. You are farther along than you think.